Remember the ripping yarn about Adam and Eve and how they realised to their horror that they were naked? They came to this shocking understanding when they had done something they were expressly told not to do.

So they hastily sew some fig leaves to cover the personal parts of their anatomy. Then they hide away, ashamed and remorseful, hoping that God will not see them and if they are found, then at least they have some sort of covering so it really won’t be that bad .. will it?

You would have thought that grumpy ol God would come breathing threats of rage and retribution. Not so.. God comes walking in the cool of the evening and calls to the couple because he can’t see them in their usual place ie. On the verandah in their favourite rocking chairs quaffing a refreshing beverage made from juniper berries or oats.

The story progresses, tension mounts and it is clear that God knows exactly what has happened.. and yet, and yet… still He comes. God knows full well that Adam and Eve are embarrassed and fallible and oozing with guilt. Still… he comes. He comes not because he wants to tick them off but because he simply wants to be with them. He comes knowing full well how fallible we are and what we have done. He even knows the trim of our designer fig leaves. These are just foolish bits of dressing which really serve no earthly purpose at all except to try to cover our perceived shame when in fact none of them are necessary.

It is a good news story. The Master comes to be with us not because of what we have done, but simply because He wants to share that refreshing beverage and gentle conversation.

Jesus said to Mary, ‘Woman, why are you weeping? For whom are you looking?’ Supposing him to be the gardener, she said to him, ‘Sir, if you have carried him away, tell me where you have laid him, and I will take him away.’ 16 Jesus said to her, ‘Mary!’ She turned and said to him in Hebrew, ‘Rabbouni!’  said to Mary Magdalene, ‘Do not hold on to me, because I have not yet ascended to the Father. But go to my brothers and say to them, “I am ascending to my Father and your Father, to my God and your God.”’

As far as I can make out these are the last recorded words of Jesus to Mary Magdalene.

I bet they were ringing in her ears as she rushed away from the empty tomb to the disciples.

The natural thing for Mary would be to stay and to hold onto her beloved Lord but he discourages that.

‘Do not hold onto me…

And then he gives her a very important job to do.

“Go to my brothers and say to them

‘I am ascending to my Father and your father, my God and your God’.”

I hope that there have been one or two times in your worshipping life when you have encountered the Risen Christ. Sensed His very presence even if he was hidden to you under the sacrament or in the face of someone most unlikely. Just for a minuscule  moment, the veil is taken aside and like Mary Magdalene you see who it is that truly stands before you.

It is the most sublime experience and the thing we want most of all is for that moment, that sense of intimacy to last forever. To hang onto it.

And when this exquisite unexpected bubble pops as it must, we are left be-puzzled, wondering if it really did happen and how do we conjure up the experience again. Wouldn’t it be great if we could make it last indefinitely!

Like Mary Magdalene that's not what we are supposed to do. Even after this marvellous act of worship here today there is important work to get on with.

In a little while I will send you out “Go in peace to Love and serve the Lord…”. Go and tell my brethren that He is risen. Jesus' last words to Mary are the words He continuously speaks to us. Yes, this sense of closeness is lovely but… off you go… you’ve got this. Go and tell them that the grave is conquered. He is Risen Alleluia.

Something to ponder on this Easter Day.

In verse one of chapter 20 Mary comes to the tomb and sees the stone rolled away. She runs off, knocks on Peter and John’s door and gets them out of bed. Remember it was still dark when she went to the tomb.

Peter and John run the world's first 4 minute mile to the tomb. We presume that Mary stays at Peter and John’s place while they run off. There is no mention of her joining in with this foot race.

But hey presto, come verse 11, there she is back at the tomb. Why has she come back? The most likely explanation is that she has returned to give vent to her grief which is exactly what she is doing when Jesus appears.

However God has another reason for her to come back to the tomb and that is to give her a very important task. To go and spread the news that Christ is risen.

I wonder how often in our lives we have gone to a particular place, for a particular purpose, absolutely sure of what we were going to do and why we were going to do it. But then something unexpected happens. God intervenes in his quiet, lovely, but dramatic way and we find out that we are exactly where we are supposed to be, at exactly the right time, but the reason for being there is transformed into something quite different, boggling and incomprehensible.

It is not until, much later that we can have the hindsight to look back and think… so that was what it was all about. The Risen Christ was hidden. He appeared to us as someone quite different and yet he gently spoke our name, told us in the nicest possible way to move on and then get on. Go and spread the good news of the empty tomb.

If that has happened to you.. then how blessed you are. Go and tell the brothers and sisters that He IS risen. He is already here with us and He is awaiting us when it comes our turn to be laid in our tomb.

Meet Derek the Donkey

Today I wanted to reflect on one of the more significant characters in the Palm Sunday story. In fact some biblical commentators say that this person's role was absolutely vital. Meet Derek the donkey that carried Our Lord into Jerusalem. There are a few pertinent things about Derek. First, Derek was chosen specifically for his role. Read the good book carefully and you’ll see that Jesus chooses Derek. Not Dave, not Delilah, not Dawn not Darcy or  even Danny.  No, Derek is the donkey that Jesus wants.

“Jesus  sent two of his disciples and said to them, ‘Go into the village ahead of you, and immediately as you enter it, you will find tied there a colt that has never been ridden; untie it and bring it.”

Moreover Derek is needed. The symbolism of the King riding the lowliest of beasts would not have been lost on those who lined the streets and it must never be lost on us. It is crucial that Derek shows up.

Now it is a little known fact that Derek actually went grudgingly. He was about to whoof into his feed box and he had his eye on a pretty young donkey that had just been introduced to the herd. So of course when these two strangers show up out of nowhere with a task that was not in his job description, Derek is more than a little put out and goes reluctantly with the disciples. Still with a full tum tum and a wicked twinkle in his eye Derek sighs heavily and goes off to do as he is asked. He’s really not quite sure about this task put quickly realises that the guy on his back is someone that is good at gently steering. He’s the sort of passenger that engages you so that you really just want to assist. It’s a long haul but as they get closer to Jerusalem Derek is just pleased to be able help because he has grown to rather like his passenger.

As he trots along Derek hears the crowd and he can tell that they are excited and cheering. As he gets closer to Jerusalem the crowd gets bigger and the shouts get louder. Then he hears his first “Hosanna”. The word is picked up by the crowd and pretty soon everybody is shouting “Hosanna!” Derek's ego begins to swell. Even the pretty young filly back at the stable is forgotten, such is the verve of the crowd. “Hosanna, HOSANNA!” chant the crowds. This is the most fun and the most fuss that Derek has ever experienced in his  three years of being a donkey. ‘They love me… They need me’ he thinks… ‘What can I say?’. But here’s the thing. After Jesus' triumphant entry into Jerusalem, Derek is never mentioned again. He disappears from the pages of the bible just as swiftly he appears.

Now I tell you about Derek because there is a little part of him that is all of us. Sometimes we are asked to do things and go places where we would rather not. Like fessing up, like trying to chat through difficult issues that are tricky, and maybe just getting our stuff together so that we can find ourselves at the altar on a regular basis. Like finding a line in our family budget for God. But God has chosen us specially and specifically for a particular reason. Like Derek, we may not know about it, we might never understand it, we might think it is a frivolous waste of time; but there is a reason for this. We might never be able to see the bigger picture and how we fit into the grand plan of things. But our role is crucial in God’s eyes and while we might come dragging our feet, with heavy hearts and muttering to ourselves and anyone else who will listen, still we come. And notice please that Derek doesn’t have any lines to speak. Perhaps we are most effective when we keep our counsel and listen. And what are we to make of the Hosannas. Dear Derek thought they were for him and this is the part where you can have a mini doze because this next point is for clergy. The message of the Hosannas is that the cheering is always for the Master. It’s not about the priest or dare I say it, about Bishop Gary. It is always about The One true High priest. The one on the donkey, not the donkey himself. And the good news… If God can use Derek the donkey in the triumphant fulfilment of his plan, then he certainly has a plan for me and he most certainly has a plan for you.

This lesson was learned the hard way on Cradle Mountain. The views were amazing and the path was long. We walked at a brisk pace for over two hours. It was an invigorating experience and we felt honoured to be on holidays in this amazing part of the world. Frequently steps found us. The longer we walked the more arduous and bewildering these steps seemed to become. Almost as if they had a taunting life of their own… daring us to try and conquer them. As we neared the end of our trek (a part of me not really wanting the experience to be over) a particularly challenging set of steps sneered wickedly down at us.

I sighed, looked up and in one of those rare moments that only happens every 2,865 days, I thought ‘Well there is only one way to do this and that is one step at a time’. Trying to do any more than one step at time would be as foolish as jumping off a wardrobe.

I thought of this rare and precious insight as I looked at my list on the desk this morning. The list seemed long and inexpugnable. And then Cradle Mountain and those steps came back to me.

“OK” I muttered, fruitlessly trying to inject some determination into soul. “We’re just going to do this one step at a time.” It did not make the list go away, just as those monstrous steps did not vanish at Cradle Mountain. But at least there was a way forward, a methodology, a plan of attack.

Perhaps, like me you too have those moments or days where the task bewilders and befuddles you. If so, remember that you are not alone and together we’re just going to do this one… step… at… a… time.

“Sir we wish to see Jesus”

In today's gospel the shadow of the cross looms ever closer  and darker. “Very truly, I tell you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains just a single grain; but if it dies, it bears much fruit” We are right to prickle and cringe at the sense of foreboding and I want to come back to the cross a little later. Sometimes, just sometimes, when I am reading the good book a one liner reaches out from the pages and smacks across my left cheek. I hope occasionally this might happen for you too.

In today's gospel it was this line. “Sir we wish to see Jesus”. It is spoken by Greeks who normally would have been considered outsiders; but no… here they are at the festival, wanting to worship and wanting to see Jesus. We are not told about their motives, whether they had a shopping list for Jesus or whether they were just down right curious. Maybe they were just wanting to jump on board  with the latest and most controversial fad. We are not told if they got to see Jesus. We are not even told how many there were. For some reason I had always assumed that there were just two. But read again Fr. David. We are not told. In fact after their request, they are never mentioned again. They are one of many people who frustratingly disappear from scripture and we are left scratching our heads wondering whatever happened to them.

***“Sir, we wish to see Jesus.”

If we are honest there are times in all of our lives when we have echoed that line if not out loud, then certainly deep from our heart. We wish to see Jesus. It is one of the most authentic prayers that we can offer. It doesn’t try to pretend that things are lovely, sweetness and light and smelling of roses. It simply tells it as it is. So if you find yourself uttering this prayer at any stage, for any reason, then it is not a sign of failure, but rather an indication that you know how much you need him and you have come to the right place. A gold star to you.

But where do we see him? Here are a few classic places that you might glimpse him.

In the face of the unexpected stranger who is sent into your life. They might be just like the Greeks. People who just brush against your life and then are gone again.

Then there are the people who drive us nuts. Yes, those who we know we will never agree with, who hold vastly opposing views to our own, who have that irritating habit of getting under our skin. These are the people who stretch us, challenge us, infuriate us and in their aggravating, exasperating ways make us think again, ponder and wonder. They stretch our thinking and our patience and perhaps that is not such a bad thing.

We find Him of course in the sacrament of the altar. This is my body. Nothing more, nothing less. We have His promise for it and we do what he has asked of us.

We see Jesus in the face of a friend. That confidant, that special person who knows all our eccentricities. The one who knows our frailty better than we do. The one who has a twinkle in their eye and a winning smile whenever they see us and we know that we are going to get a good hearing and sage advice.

If we are very patient we might also see him in the mirror. This might seem completely mad, but strap yourself in and just go with me on this.  If we glimpse the Master in others is not also likely that they glimpse Jesus in us. Surely that must be possible, if not probable, if not certain.

And finally we glimpse him the crucifix. This is love made visible. The image of Jesus with his arms wide open on the cross to embrace us. The crucifix says. “This is how much I love you. This is what I am willing to do for you.” The mangled man on the cross is the loving face of God looking at us.

Sir we wish to see Jesus.

I suspect that there are times when we are grouchy and we really want to see Jesus and give him a piece of our mind. Or maybe we have a “to do” list for him. Dear God, you can start by…. Let me tell you… and then you can…There are other times I suspect when we might have a guilty conscience and we are really not quite sure that we want to see him at all. If you’re anything like me then you flit quickly from not wanting to see him, to really wanting to see him very much. As I speak, in this fleeting second, I don’t  really know where you are up to. But this much I do know. I do know that He sure wants to see you.

I had the privilege of going to the Penshurst cemetery the other day. I was struck by the distance from the town centre to the cemetery itself. This is not in any way a criticism, but rather an observation. The phenomenon of ‘camouflaging’ death is evident in every parish I have served in. The cemetery is placed away from view; away from our thinking and consideration. We don’t want to confront it. It’s almost as if we have tried to pretend that death does not occur. By placing it at the periphery of our town limits, we can conveniently and swiftly forget about it.

Further, it’s as if we are ashamed of sister death. The unwelcome guest who mucks with our lives. An inconvenience. The Master was crucified well outside the city of Jerusalem for this very reason. He died a criminal's death and therefore died outside of the city. Even in a death; a humiliating, naked death, the location says it all. The place of his death clearly speaks the message that this man was a low life, an embarrassment, a recalcitrant. He was a no gooder and we are going to forget about him as quickly as possible.

I actually view it slightly differently and look at the telescope from the other end. I actually think that it was a helpful thing for the Master to die ‘outside’. The message for me is that there is no place that is absent from God’s love. No matter how far we might have strayed, no matter how alone or forgotten… even in death, especially in death, He is there for us, with us and leading us home. The encounter with the other crim on the cross says it all. ‘Today you will be with me in paradise’.

Jeanine and I were doing a little walk called ‘Venus baths’ at Halls Gap the other day. It is a small walk of about 1 kilometre. It is gentle and great exercise. You get to see how the weather and water has shaped the rocks into what they are today. There’s one of those nifty plaques where you can read all about this process and what has happened over the last couple of thousand years. It is quite remarkable.

It occurred to me that we too are continuously being fashioned into something quite special and lovely. We are tempted to think of the ageing process and how we are not perceived as being quite as outwardly gorgeous as we were in our younger years. But there is something else going on. The rough edges are smoothed away. The colours are heightened and we understand that there is more than what meets the eye.

The process is invisible and yet it is quite powerful. I know I am quite a different person at 61 than I was at 21. The Master Carpenter is continuously working on us to fashion us into something quite exquisite. This was eloquently captured by Kaouther Adimi in his book “A Bookshop in Algiers’. He writes

“He brought us into the world, shaped us, coaxed us told us off sometimes, always encouraged us, praised us beyond our merits, brought us together, smoothed us polished us set us righted us often raised us, inspired us. Never once did he say a word to suggest that we were anything else than a child of God. We were marching toward a magnificent future and we would bring heavenly glory to earth. We are his dream, his joy, his delight, his prize, his love”.

As the saving events of Holy Week and Easter draw closer, the Church gives us this marvellous little reprieve as we stop and enjoy Mothering Sunday. We often think of three mothers. Mother church, Mother Mary and our own Mothers. Today I want to reflect on Mother Mary and our own mothers. First Mother Mary. In Holy Week there is one encounter with her that we can be sure of. John in his gospel tells us in no uncertain terms where Mary was when her son died. She was there at the foot of the cross. This much we know for sure. There are two other little encounters that have grown up as traditions, but are not recorded for us in Holy Scripture. They do however ring true as entirely plausible if not probable. One is that Mother Mary met her son on the hot, dusty road to Calvary. There is no Biblical account for this. None whatsoever; but there is a certain something in us that says

“Yes, well I can see how that is a strong possibility”. While Jesus might have been embarrassed and wanted to spare his mum the hurt, a Mothers love is so potent that Mary of course would want to be there. Where else could she be? Where else would she be? We could say that perhaps it might have happened like this. That she pushed through the jostling belligerent crowd, wanting to see, wanting to touch, wanting to hold, to protect, wanting to … well just wanting to make it all stop. “I called to him through the shouting voices. He stopped; our eyes met. Mine  full of tears and confusion, his full of pain and anguish”. Then his eyes said to me “Courage, there is a purpose for this”. As he stumbled on I knew he was right. So I followed on and prayed silently.

The other encounter of which there is no account, but which makes perfect sense is a meeting between Mother Mary and her Risen son. Jesus appears to all sorts of people after his resurrection, but there is no mention of him meeting his mother. We could say that it happened like this. Perhaps Mary had gone out early in the morning to get water from the well. Or just as she was about to close her eyes in another attempt to try and snatch some elusive sleep. And all of a sudden there He is. Beautiful, radiant, triumphant, his eyes full of tender love. His gaze one of gentle reassurance. A minimum of words, but then no words are necessary.

And this is also true of our own mothers no matter where they are, or what their foibles, or what their gifts. There are some things that we know for sure about our mothers. That they gave birth to us, they fed us and they pray for us; consciously or subconsciously they will always want what is best for us. But there are also things which kind of make sense and which we can only guess at. How frustrated they were at our recalcitrant behaviour as we tried to figure out where the boundaries were. The stab of pain when we fell out of the tree or scraped our knee, or had our tonsils out and our romantic hearts broken. All these things we kind of  know, but we were never told.

And perhaps that's OK. Perhaps that is the way that it is supposed to be. Perhaps there are some things that we can discover and comprehend, only as we take our place in the next generation up. Perhaps there are some things about the mystery of motherhood that are so personal, so intimate that they do not belong on public record but are quietly treasured in those deep places of a Mothers heart that Our Lady knows oh so well.

So on this mothering Sunday we remember Mother Mary. We give thanks for her courage at the foot of the cross and we rejoice in the things that we do know. We ponder the things that must have been, and yet we are not told. And we look forward to that day when we rejoice with her and her son. When the mystery of Motherhood is not necessarily bandied about for all to see and broadcast, but rather is quietly revealed and understood, but most of all, enjoyed. Then we will know that we have been loved, that we are loved and that we will always be loved. Then we will comprehend in its full mind blowing joy, the mystery of motherhood… the truth we dimly know.

The idea for these words came from someone else a gent called Brandon Stanton in his book ‘Humans’. He writes.

‘Everyone has a story because every person has a struggle. The obstacle that has been faced and hopefully overcome.  Struggles are crucial because they’re transformative’.

As I read those words they resounded clearly and loudly with me. They resonated and I knew them to be True. I have never met anyone who hasn’t had some kind of struggle and who hasn’t been changed by their struggle. Sometimes the struggle finds us. The unexpected accident, illness or death. Sometimes we inflict the struggle upon ourselves. We make woeful decisions. Our words and actions are poorly chosen or we leave things until it’s too late.

But our struggles are not to be shied away from. Nor must we pretend to ourselves and to others, that it is not happening and that somehow it doesn’t matter. It matters… a lot. Properly and bravely faced our struggles can be conquered. We may not think that we have ‘won’. We may feel depleted and deflated. Things may not have turned out the way we had hoped, but so long as we stand firm in the whirlwind of struggle, we can be transformed into someone even more beautiful, engaging and compassionate.

Perhaps the loveliest thing about struggle is that it connects us one with another. We relate to and understand each other. Relationships are welded in the heat of struggle. The more candid we can be, the more vividly that our pain is expressed and shared, the more compassion it elicits and the more powerful the bond that is forged. And if all that be true, how come when we seem to have multiples of struggles on so many levels… how come we seem more disengaged, disjointed and disconnected?